What are you missing??

Have you ever felt life your life was on “auto-pilot”?Ever stopped and asked yourself, “How did I get here?”

Sometimes, we “drive” through life like we do a routine car trip — you know, the ones where you just arrive and don’t remember the actual drive! That happens far too often, right?

Yet, did you ever stop and ask yourself, “What did I miss along the trip?”

Well, people go through life, in a similar fashion — in a routine. The routine becomes the “rat race” and suddenly you are desperately looking for your way out!!

Making slight shifts in your routine causes you to be consciously aware during the experience.

Answer these questions:

“What do you do when you wake up?”

“Then what?”

“Then what?”

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“Then what?”

See, you can transcribe your daily routine — which means your consciousness is probably so bored it went out to lunch. Yet, it’s still aware of whats going on enough to get you through the routine.

VARY YOUR ROUTINE — YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE!

Do you drive the same boring stretch of road on the way to work? Change it — take a different route a few times a week — either on the way their and the way back. Allow yourself to be conscious through the trip and discover new ways and new things.

I cannot tell you how many times I have discovered a “new place” because I varied my routine — yet, the place had always been there. I would have continued my life not knowing it even existed if I didn’t vary my routine.

Constantly keep your morning routine varied — take a shower after breakfast, get up 10 -15 minutes earlier, meditate in the morning, etc.

By doing these things, you will notice new things because you are living in conscious awareness — new smells, new sights, new things … and you’ll take in the beauty that surrounds you that you’ve never noticed before.

Enjoy your day!

Let’s talk about money! Seems to be a popular subject in today’s world, but is it truly the root of all evil?

There is nothing that doesn’t exist outside of God-Consciousness — MONEY INCLUDED!!

GOD or Universal Consciousness or whatever name you call it — it desires for you to be happy and have all the things in the world you desire to experience. It’s important to note that money is a vehicle by which you can bring your desired experiences into reality — it isn’t going to buy you happiness.

You can be the richest person in the world and the most unhappy person at the same time — so, we need again a balance of sorts.

Money, for a lot of people, is a source of abundance and they feel that with it they will be happy because they will be able to buy, do, and become the person they envision themselves to be because of money. Now, money, is an aide but it isn’t the end all be all — in fact, most people that have such a deep attachment to it and depend on it to make it in the world or simply be happy aren’t feeling their already abundant source flow.

Another words, you already are abundant and there is nothing you cannot have because it already exists within you. People, need to truly understand the power of thought, and how our thoughts about our life and even money can repel or manifest that which we desire.

A person who feels they need more money, have no money, don’t make enough money, etc. all are coming from a universal place of LACK — thus, what they are focusing on truly is the “lack of money or abundance” and thus they keep creating this reality.

However, a person who sees money as a source of energy and realizes that what they give out will indeed return back to them is ultimately coming from a place of already having it.

There are a few things you can do; however, to spiritually attract money, if that is your desire. You can give donations to a church or person from which you feel spiritually enriches your life, you can give money to an organization that is making a difference in the world, or to a charity you believe in.

The amount of money doesn’t really matter — you can give a lot or you can give a little. You are sending a message that you have money to give and that’s a statement loud and clear to the universe.

When out shopping try on that expensive suit you desire to have — feel the shift in your energy as you wear it, see yourself wearing it, as you have it one envision you purchasing it or wearing out to a social gala, own it in your mind, believe you already have it and it will become a reality.

Far too many people, don’t treat themselves the greatest — if at all. Another words, if you wanted a shirt, blouse, shoes, a massage, etc. many will deny themselves that experience because they believe “I cannot afford that.” or “I’ll get it later.” or, even still, “The bills need to be paid.”

What is this sending out to the Universe about your financial standing?

You guessed it … LACK!

Yet, we don’t just deny ourselves material things, but experiences as well. It is important to give back to yourself for a job well done, a life well lived, etc. You need to re-nourish your soul by doing those things that make you happy and you, by in large, will be attracting more of those experiences and things into your life.

When your car is low on fuel — do you keep driving it until it stops? Or do you stop off at a gas station and refuel the tank?

Remember, that this is your journey, and if you truly want to make a difference in another’s life you must treat yourself first. If you constantly give away pieces of the pie what eventually happens is there is no more pie left; however, by you treating yourself to experiences and things you desire you will be refilling the pie plate with a full and complete pie.

Some Sources for Spiritual Fulfillment:

Yoga

Meditation

Massage

Make a purchase that you always wanted

Paying off that credit card

A family vacation

A new hair style

Visiting a Place of Beauty

The list can go on and on, and changes with regards to each person. So, what makes you happy? Is it a long walk on the beach, relaxing in a hot tub, etc.

Think about what helps replenish your soul so that you don’t become cranky and irritable — then do it!

I would say to do something for yourself at least once a week — small or large, it doesn’t matter just refuel your tank.

Now, with that taken care of let us return our focus back to money!

Money is a source of energy which is neutral in nature and we project value upon it as well as beliefs about it. Some people, believe that money is evil and thus they repel it from their life. Others believe money can help them and others and attract it into their life. Others still, believe they lack it and repel it from their life. While others, feel like they will never have enough and repel it from their life.

So, we must first shift our perception of money if it isn’t in alignment with attracting it — if that is indeed what you are looking to do.

Start with your personal economy — don’t look to the government to see how your economy is going. Did you know more millionaires are made during times of hardships and actually lack a college degree in many cases?

Are you one of those people that has a strictly tight budget with no room to budge? Do you feel like you are suffocating?

Well, odds are you need to shift your perceptions regarding money in order to breath again. Those who budget so tightly are actually coming from … LACK. It is basically saying we need to do X, Y, and Z in order to afford our lifestyle which is in alignment that you don’t really have the money.

We need to shift it to “Money flows freely and easily to me.” or “I am abundant in all aspects of life; money, relationships, career, etc.”

Create a list of your abundance and what you have to offer;

Do you have love to give?

Do you have sense of humor to share?

Do you have compassion to give?

Do you have empathy to give?

Do you have knowledge to offer?

Now to your current abundance:

Do you have a place to live?

Do you have a car to drive?

Do you have a source of income?

Do you have a talent?

Do you have friends?

Do you have a family?

Do you have people that love you?

Do you have food in the fridge?

Do you have a TV, a phone, a bed, etc.

Are you grateful for having those things? Or do you expect them and take them for granted?

Everything you have is part of your abundance — internal abundance equals external abundance. So, when we need to acknowledge that our inner world is reflected into our outer experience.

So, in order to truly feed wealthy or abundant — we must see that we already are by looking to all the things that we have, are, and will become.

By doing the above you will be attracting into your life more happiness, more abundance, and more wealth.

Some Affirmations:

“I appreciate and am thankful for the things that I have, am, and know that I am abundant in all things.”

“I am thankful for my paycheck because I know that it providing me a source of income, a lifestyle, and the ability to have X, Y, Z.”

“I realize that my job is only an avenue through which money can come to me.”

Think about that last one — your job is only a source of income! It’s not the only one! So, think how else can you create an additional stream of income?

So often, in life, it is easier to find the “faults” — or rather our projection of faults — in someone than it is to find the positive. Especially, if we are angry, upset, or arguing with this person — we have this desire to be … RIGHT.

Yet, to argue, is a choice is it not? Can you at any point in time shift the conversation — if you really wanted? That is to say, if you weren’t having so much fun getting pissed off and having your blood boil. Of course, that alone can cause a variety of health problems — so, is it really worth it?

Some would argue that it is because they enjoy it and need to be right — or so they think. Yet, relationships like this are only going to end in the dumpster! Is that really where you want your relationships to go?

“But, William, if we don’t address the issues nothing will ever get resolved and then what?”

Somehow, I knew you were going to ask that question! Truth be told, arguing doesn’t resolve — it complicates and more often than not diverts to other issues and away from the original one, right? Suddenly, you are arguing about something that happened last week, a month, or even a year ago and how is that resolving the present moment?

The first thing we must realize is ask ourselves;

“Why do I feel this way?”

“Where does my position in this situation originate?”

“How did I come to having these beliefs?”

“What are the good contributions, through our relationship, has this person made?

“What is it that I admire about this person?”

Now, you are armed with the means by which you can address the issues — all issues originate where? Now, the normal human conditioning says point a GIANT finger away from myself — yet, the finger should always be pointed inward.

Did you notice by the types of questions above we were performing a self analysis?

Here is what happens in relationships — two people with different life experiences come together either as friends or lovers and when those belief systems collide — you get an argument. While you may have had similar experiences even you both through your human conditioning were taught different ways of handling them — neither way is incorrect.

At some point, however, you must ask yourself those above questions and then ask;

“Does this belief serve my highest good and intention anymore?”

If not, we must learn to let it go and create new beliefs and ways to handle situations.

You see, part of our Human Conditioning is to mimic those around us — so, odds are if you thought long and hard and were truthful with yourself you could find out exactly where you picked up beliefs, behaviors, and even reactions (how we handle things).

“William, it sounds like I’m at fault for everything. Am I, right?”

Listen, first we need to do away with right and wrong — instead, think of it as what I have done and what I will / can do. Now, the biggest part of this journey is owning the fact that you are creating your reality which means accepting responsibility for your life experiences and not trying to find fault or pass blame. An experience, is something you have created to learn a valuable lesson and ascend into higher consciousness — whether you ascend or not depends on your response!

When arguing, for example, we typically are lashing out about something that is really bothering us — but, we don’t often question why it’s bothering us. Instead, we assume that someone else is to blame and we go into attack mode. The person we are attacking has a few options and choices on how to respond to this attack.

1. They could attack back — insult to injury

2. They could defend themselves — causing the person to attack more escalating the argument

3. They could listen –  by allowing the person who is attacking to vent

4. They could state positive things about their attacker — it’s kind of hard to be angry with someone if they are loving you through it.

The last two are key responses to situations — could you see how the argument might shift?

A majority of arguments come from “feelings” which are related to their human conditioning so we must be mindful of that as well — it will help us make the the right choices when responding. So, it’s fair to say that an emotional need isn’t being met — or at least that is the feeling of your attacker — and by listening you will get cues as to real issue and what need isn’t being met.

However, if you, focus on the things that you love about someone instead of the “differences” than you WIN. It’s not our job to point out faults in a person — remember, the finger is always pointing inward. Chances are if you don’t like an aspect of a person — you are really shaken by the reality it exists within you!

Love the “faults” … Love the person … Love the Moments and ultimately love yourself.

Think of all the relationships you have as a giant mirror — each of them reflecting back an aspect of yourself that you need to learn to love and handle and see in a different way.

This is how we grow spiritually and become a better human being — is it not?

Have you ever felt you were fulfilling a role in life?

Another aspect of the human condition is the creation of individuality and various roles; mother, father, daughter, son, brother, sister, cousin, uncle, boss, co-worker, friend, student, lawyer, doctor, vet, etc.

What purpose do these roles serve? Well, they serve the human condition in its quest for individuality and status which ultimately feeds the what? You guessed it … EGO!

There is a saying that EGO stands for Edging God Out and that is a true and accurate statement because the further you go into EGO the farther away you become from your God-Centered reality.

God Centered Reality?

“God is you and you are God and that there is no place that God is not — therefore, there is no place that you are not!”

So, in the human conditions quest for individuality, i.e. to be different and the EGO’s quest to be better than it would stand to reason you would get further, and further, away from this God Centered Reality, right?

When you look at another human being odds are you don’t see an aspect of yourself looking back at you. Instead, you see an entirely different (separate) human being and then your progress into stage 2 of the human condition — sizing them up.

Ever notice, that you have preconceived notions about people before they even speak? Where do they come from? That right … The Human Condition! Often they are beliefs that are planted by others or a perception that you have created based on an experience — so, what this really means is the EGO now can pass “judgement” on this person.

Things like:

“Look at the size of that person.”

“He she looks snobby.”

“He/she smells.”

“What a bitch.”

“OMG … She is dressing so slutty.”

“This person has to be stupid.”

“They must not have a lot of money.”

“Thank God, we don’t live like that.”

“Look how greasy his/her hair is — do they even shower?”

And on and on the list goes.

These thoughts seem to just “pop” into your head without even consciously thinking about them — yet, it is all due to the training at the College of Human Conditioning and EGO — where inflation is all the rage!

So, as you can tell, these statements feed one  purpose which is to to degrade another in an effort to make you feel better about your situation and yourself. However, thinking these thoughts about another in essence is the same as thinking them about yourself — there is no place you are not, remember? The Law of One …

Now, what is really happening? You are seeing an aspect of yourself that you choose not to believe exists within yourself and are projecting it onto this person — which is really a “hologram” of sorts since their is only one being and you can call it; God, Consciousness, The Divine Mind, Jesus, Buddha, Krishna, etc.

So, next time, you find yourself passing judgment ask yourself, “What aspect of myself am I facing, right now?” AND “What can it teach me?”

Remember, as long as EGO and Human Conditioning reign in the third dimension of reality — the physical plane — inequality will as well. You can make shift within yourself and I promise when you do — Your life will be much more enjoyable and without anger, frustration, prejudice, stress, etc.

Change your thinking — change your life!

Relationships change — get over it!

Part of the human condition is this need to hold onto things that no longer serve our highest good and intention; experiences, emotions, beliefs, thoughts, and … RELATIONSHIPS.

When I say relationships — I am speaking of all types.

Have you ever felt hurt or offended, maybe even, betrayed that a friendship or relationship ended? If you are human, it’s more than likely you have! Yet, a lot of times, what we realize after all the smoke clears is that our life is somehow better — less stagnant, maybe your other relationships have improved, etc.

People come into and out of our life at exactly the right moment — trust it. The question is …

What did you learn while they were apart of your life? How has that experience positively enhanced your life?

The answers to those questions are key in accepting the change and moving on with your life. Yet, most people, would rather be in a relationship friendship or otherwise because they are unwilling to let go. In fact, many have formed beliefs of what would happen and what wouldn’t happen if they did leave the relationship — so, this delusion becomes backed by “beliefs” for which you have gathered and continue to gather resources that support them.

Sometimes, we project onto the people in our life a “higher standard” — a role for them to fill — and it’s not our place to do so. We must accept the people for who they are at the moment and ask, “Does this person have my highest good and intention at heart?”

Many have this idealistic version of a person and feel betrayed when this person doesn’t live up to their fantasy of them — that is not fair, is it?

Before you give up on a relationship, however, ask yourself this;

“What emotional need is not being met? Is there an alternative to getting this need met and saving the relationship?”

With those answers you’ll know what to do.

All relationships are a two sided road and if they are only one sided than it isn’t a relationship at all. After all, a relationship is how two people relate with one another, right?

So, what do you do with someone that you have decided no longer serves your highest good and intention? Toss ‘em to the curb — realign yourself with people who do hold your highest good and intention at heart. You don’t have to get rid of the person completely, but you can choose not to relate with them any longer or simply a lot less!

I did a blog along this lines a while back entitled “Who’s in Your Top 5?”

Remember, they say you are equal to the sum of the company (relationships) you keep. So, if those around you aren’t in alignment where you want to be or feel you are going — make the shift!

It’s not easy, but take the positive out the experience of the relationship and move forward. In the end, you will feel much better because YOU are holding your highest good and intention at heart!

Remember, it all begins and ends with you!

Many people say, “Seeing is Believing,” but I believe the opposite is true.

Far too many people, underestimate the power of belief and trust far too much what they see with their eyes. Yet, we know that the eyes can be deceived such as in the case of optical illusions, magic tricks, etc.

In fact, we currently, are experiencing one of the greatest illusions ever preformed — the physical reality. It is so real to many, they would argue that it exists — a powerful illusion for sure!

Yet, science is catching up to concepts that Mystics and Metaphysicians have known for years — that nothing exists outside of consciousness and that the world we see today — is one we have created.

Belief in something is like watering a plant — it takes root and spreads. Think, for a moment, what are some of your beliefs? Did you always have them? If not, when did they start? What happened in your life to “cause” this belief? Who told you this belief? Then, ask yourself, one final question:

Does this belief serve your highest good and intention?

Holding onto beliefs that no longer serve us — is like the Achilles heel of mankind.

It has been proven that negative beliefs cause dis-ease in the body; cancer, headaches, back pain, stomach pain, etc. It literally weakens the physical body, in fact, it goes far beyond that and into what we eat, drink, hear, etc.

But, let’s focus on ones beliefs.

Where do beliefs come from?

Truth be told, they come from human conditioning — we pick them up like trinkets along the road of life. Some come from fellow travelers that we meet along the road, others come from perceptions of our experiences, and then of course family, friends, colleagues, teachers, etc.

When you are young and impressionable you tend to believe — that is to accept — another’s belief system that is projected on you. A good example of this, is racism that is obviously a “learned belief” — where from? Parents, most-likely or some type of experience.

I once heard a story of a young child who grew up in an all white town and one day, when this child was a teen, he saw for the first time an African American. This being a new experience he didn’t know what to think and actually asked somebody, “What’s that?”

He then, brought into his awareness, that some had a darker pigmentation of the skin than others, but at first it was a jolt to his system because it was the very first time he had ever experienced an African American.

Hating is not a natural belief or emotion for us to have — it is learned. When we come in with the innocence and love of a child we do not have one ounce of hate in our body.

So how does it get there? Through conditioning, my friend, as you grow up you hear things, learn things, and then seek out experiences to corroborate your teachings — so to speak. All of this, is done unbeknownst to you.

Think for a moment, if you think you are fat or overweight — what occurs when you are reading the paper, watching TV, listening to conversations, etc. ?

You see food commercials, advertisements for gym memberships, weight loss cures, clothes don’t fit you and people are even talking about obesity and weight loss. What triggered this — was a simple belief that you found resources to back up.

We do this daily and unconsciously — it is in our unconscious mind where we hoard the collection of beliefs that we have acquired through our journey. Did you know 90% of what you do in an awake conscious state of mind is controlled by your unconscious mind?

So, that means your thoughts, words, and actions are controlled by the beliefs and the perceptions of experiences locked away in your unconscious mind. So your current reactions to things is due largely in part to past experiences and beliefs.

So then it stands to reason, that a person who yearns to be “in control” of their life needs to have a way to “control” the unconscious mind, right?

Well, let’s just say that CONTROL is an illusion — the only thing you really can control is your perception of things and your responses to them — which in some aspect relate to your beliefs.

So, it’s possible that your beliefs could not only be causing dis-ease in the body but misery in life. One of the hardest things a person can do it shift beliefs — or is it?

Actually, shifting a belief is just a matter of retraining the unconscious mind to look for and support a new belief.

The first part, of this is tricky because you actually need to “plant” the new belief into your subconscious mind through use of meditation and affirmations.

For example,

“I’m overweight” can be replaced by,

“I am healthy, happy, and whole as I trust that Divine Mind is above my addiction to food and will help me make better choices to reach my ideal weight of ____”

That’s just an example, but can you see how that motivates you — knowing you are not alone in this battle? By turning it over to your divine mind — you are, by in large, saying, “I don’t know how I’m going to get there, but I know I will.”

Now, it’s important, to take an affirmation and repeat it daily — several times, if needed, and to back it up by aligning your actions with it.

Also, in this case, it may be helpful to say the affirmation while making a food selection.

Think of an affirmation as your way of Affirming a New Belief.

Are you with me??

Have you ever wanted something so badly that it seems your whole life depended on it ?? Perhaps, it was a raise, a loan, a new car, a computer game, etc. — whatever the prize, it seems that everything you did was contingent on that outcome.

Well, let’s keep in mind when you desire something so strongly — you are actually telling the universe that you don’t have it and thus that is what your true focus is on — so, that is what you continue to manifest for yourself.

One must always remain “disconnected” from the outcome and by that — what I mean is that you cannot depend on the outcome in order to live a better life. Instead, you must think more along the lines of “When my new car comes it will be a great bonus!”

See how that statement anticipates the car, but doesn’t need the car ?? When we do something because we feel we NEED it — we are really saying we LACK it. And so, while we are constantly trying to convince ourselves that we are really in pursuit of this “great American Dream” — we aren’t aware that our pursuit is actually counter productive, in a sense.

So then your question is, “Well, William, how do we then manifest that which we desire while remaining unbiased to the outcome?”

This is probably one of the hardest aspects of the “Law of Attraction”. But, simple things usually are the most difficult do to — yet, in this case, all you need to do is trust that it is coming towards you as fast as you are to it and that divine “timing” plays a role.

So, instead of thinking, “I really need for this to happen …” change it to “When this happens I will be able to …” or “I see myself …. when this happens”.

Do you see the difference?

One uses the Law of Expectation — where you trust that the Universal Mind within you is taking care of things to get you to your desired result.

See when you set an intention via thought or verbally — you are making a statement to the Universe and the Universe translates it into a statement of Declaration.

So, if Bob hates his job because he feels he isn’t being compensated enough — then the statement he is making to the Universe is … “My life is miserable because I lack wealth.”

Your thoughts are either fueling an abundant thought pattern or a lacking one. I meet people every day that bitch and moan about this or that and are missing what is at the heart of their issue.

Have you ever said something to a loved one our spouse just before going off to work that was mean or nasty — not the best way to start the day, right? You’ve essentially set the intention of the day in a negative way and the day will unfold as such UNTIL you make a shift.

Most of us, however, don’t make the shift and end up having a really shitty day. Yet, the opportunity to shift is in every moment but the choice is yours on if you will or not.

The same principle applies when manifesting — ask yourself, am I coming from abundance or lack? Then make the shift accordingly.

The Universe is an abundant supply of potentialities that you can grab, focus on, and bring into a manifested reality. Typically, you are good at saying, “I want the new dress,” and then follow up with a BUT.

Let’s list some buts:

I don’t deserve it.

I cannot afford it.

Bills need to be paid.

____ needs ___ first.

____ is more important.

I’ll never have something like that.

Recognize any of the aforementioned BUTS?

So, let’s come up with some affirmations, shall we?

“I know and trust that the Universe is clearing a path for ______ to become manifested into my life and that by aligning my thoughts and actions accordingly it will be here in divine timing.”

The above states that your desire is heading towards you, the Universe is clearing a way, and that YOU have some work and have to participate in order for it to manifest.

Let’s do another one;

“I know that my God-Mind within is adjusting everything in my life in so that ____ may manifest into my ‘physical reality’ and that by keeping my thoughts and actions focused on ___ daily it will increase the vibrational alignment and intensify its manifestation. ”

Your job in manifesting is ultimately this:

1. Set the intention

2. Come from a place of knowing

3. Remain aligned and focused; thoughts, words, and deeds — need to be in alignment with intended manifestation….come from already having it.

4. You don’t need to worry HOW … trust the Universe will take care of the HOW as long as you are doing 1 – 3.

Throughout my work, I have had a lot of people state, “I’m not good enough,” or “I don’t deserve…”

Well, if thoughts create our reality, than that is a hell of a way to start, is it not? It is obvious that the above is stinking thinking, but does it have any basis in truth??

The answer is, absolutely not! In fact, those above statements and other similar ones are examples of your own human conditioning process. In other words, they are beliefs or statements projected on you by others that you owned as being yours and brought them into your conscious reality.

Let’s think for a moment, when we enter into this world we do so on a clean slate — with no name, no beliefs, and ultimately limited fears (many come in with an inborn fear of falling). All the other bullshit that we pick up along the way is a direct result of a process called human conditioning.

What is human conditioning? It is, for all intense and purposes, is the molding of you — your thoughts, your beliefs, feelings, reactions, etc. Think for a moment, when a new baby comes into the world, the parents sit googly eyed and discuss their dreams — a father may want his son to play sports, a mother may want her daughter to be a model or actress for example.

As you progress through life, the human conditioning often shapes your belief system, but your dreams and aspirations because, in most cases, someone told you how life is or at least their perception of it. In a lot of instances, it goes something like this;

1. Adults are always right therefore you should not challenge them

2. You must be a productive member of society, which constitutes someone with a high paying job

3. You have to go to school, get good grades, so that you can go to college and get better grades and get a job that pays lots of money and gives you self respect and the respect of others.

4. Religion — often we are told what we are to believe in this matter — how things are.

5. Other’s opinions of you — help mold not only your opinion of yourself, but your belief or lack their of of your potential

The list goes on and on, can you think of a few that can be added to the above list ? I bet you can!

The point is, human conditioning, is a huge problem in the world today because it leaves people doubting their true potential and following a failed formula. It also leaves people admiring the life of others instead of creating a better life for themselves!

A lot of what I teach, challenges one’s conditioning and asks themselves, “Who am I really?” and “What am I capable of?”

The answers will astound you and not jive with your conditioning.

You are God-Consciousness being expressed in human form and are living in a space of infinite potentiality whereby you are limitless in creating your own experiences.

Most people, when put into a hardship or a difficult experience — ask themselves, “What would (insert name / role here) do?”

Oftentimes, they also revert back to their conditioning and the beliefs and limits projected onto them. When you were a child and told your parents of your dream of life — what you were to become — did they answer with encouragement or doubt by their responses?

Did they say, “I believe that you can do anything you put your mind to ?” or “Get your head out of the clouds and back to reality.”

People early on in our lives don’t realize that they have the ability to “steal” our dreams — if we allow it — because we trust and believe in them. If an English teacher says, “You don’t have what it takes to be a writer,” for many that could be a dream crusher and for others that could motivate them to “prove” them wrong.

Funny, how different those two choices are — we always have a positive choice for every negative one out there. Of course, choosing the negative choice is easier because it also serves EGO, in many cases, and in some aspect makes us feel better — for a short time, anyway.

Have you ever made a choice that you later felt bad about, but at the time you felt empowered by it ? Perhaps, you even convinced yourself through lying that it was best ? Yet, later, when the smoke clears, so to speak, and you have a moment of clarity you realize that it may not have been the best choice after all.

Well, those limited belief statements, are products of human conditioning and the great thing is — THEY CAN BE CHANGED.

Write a list of all the limiting beliefs that have been projected upon you in a notebook and then write their opposite, which stands in the truth and light of WHO YOU ARE.

For example;

“I am not good enough.” turns into “I am good enough.” or if you’d like to pack a punch, “I am greatness and so greatness shall return to me in UNEXPECTED ways.”

Another example?

“I don’t deserve…” turns into “There is nothing I don’t deserve.” … and with a little kick, “I am an expression of God in human form therefore there is nothing I am not worthy of.”

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Please comment and feel free to share. Also if you need help turning a limited belief into a positive fulfilling one — post it below and I’ll see what I can come up with.

The verdict for what many would argue was a long and drawn out case was rendered against, Casey Anthony; yet, it left many people stunned and outraged — NOT GUILTY.

Put aside, your personal belief, of guilt or innocence — truth be told, unless you were on the jury, your vote doesn’t count anyway.

The lesson here is forgiveness and understanding — those jurors held a LIFE in their hands, didn’t have nearly as much intel as we the general public had, and ultimately had to render a verdict beyond a reasonable doubt of guilt. That means, that if doubt was there, even the smallest bit and they sentenced her to life or death — that too, would be an injustice, not to mention how it would weigh on the jurors conscience.

What if this acquittal was Caylee’s way of forgiving her mom ? See, we like to think that Spirits hold on to anger and seek vengeance, but the reality is they don’t. Even if, Casey, did in fact, murder her own daughter and toss her lifeless body in a ditch — Caylee has already forgiven her in an instant.

Who knows, what Casey has said, in private, to Caylee through prayer or thought, but if Caylee can forgive instantly and she was DIRECTLY affected — so can you.

Remember, this is not the jury’s fault — they did the best they could with the evidence that was provided to them. Until, you sit on a jury of a murder trial, it’s hard to judge them or their decisions.

What matters in a case like this is not my opinion, your opinion, or even a jurors personal opinion of Casey, but whether or not they felt beyond a reasonable doubt that there was sufficient evidence to convict. In this case, they did not and we cannot sit in judgement of them — they aren’t on trial.

If Casey is guilty than she will be haunted by the memories of doing such a horrible deed and will face it in the Afterlife Review — heck, she’ll experience it.

So, is Casey Anthony another O.J. Simpson ? That’s your call … but, I choose to believe that she walks free because of her daughters forgiveness and not of innocence ….

Far too many people subscribe to the belief that they are their body, their identity, their beliefs, etc. Once more, they are seeking individuality — what makes them stand a part from all others.

It is because of this many are constantly living a life of comparison in an effort to create a life or meaning. Yet, what this insinuates is that life lacks meaning to start with and nothing can be further from the truth.

The truth is nothing exists outside of you, that their is no place that you are not, and that all things are projections manifested by you and representative of you.

So, what does this mean exactly?

It means that you are cosmic energy matter and, as such, you are everything … disconnected from nothing.

Have you ever finished someones sentence ? Thought of someone and saw them later in the day ? Picked up the phone before it rang and the party whom you were going to call was on the line ?

These can be described as psychic experiences, but occur because you are already connected to everything.

There is one field of energy that exists and it is called by many names; God, Universal Mind, Christ Consciousness, Universal Consciousness, Higher Self, Goddess, etc. Nothing exists outside of this field of consciousness, but like the subconscious mind projects dreams — collective consciousness projects “reality”.

Reality stands for Responding Energy Actively Linking Illusions to You.

So this begs the question, “Responding to what?”

The answer is your thoughts and beliefs. So, energy responds actively to your thoughts and beliefs linking them to you via an illusion you come to call “reality”.

This is why people have different perceptions of reality — “individual” and collective.

Collective reality is when a large group of people subscribe to the same illusion.

So, within the mind of God, we are creating a world to better understand our consciousness and it’s unlimited potential.

Ask yourself why you have projected into “reality” the people in your life. What character trait and lesson are you needing to understand at a deeper level. If every person is reflecting an aspect of you … your understanding of them gives you a greater understanding of yourself.

Hint: We tend to focus on the trait naturally — it’s typically that one thing about the person that you dislike and refuse to acknowledge it exists within yourself. That’s why you project it on to another … so that it reflects back at you to handle.

Most people do what comes natural which is gripe about that trait instead of acknowledging it exists within them and coming to a way to live in harmony with it — to embrace it.

When we begin to interact with everyone and everything, with the knowledge that it is an extension of ourselves, we begin to significantly see a vast improvement in the reality we are creating. What we give to another we undoubtedly give to ourselves.

I have come to realize that life isn’t about me, but rather, about how I interact and help others. After all, the lessons we learn here primarily occur through an interaction with someone. It would stand to reason then that our interactions are very important through the illusion we create called life.

I know from my work as a Psychic Medium, that on our death bed we want to know the answer to the question, “Did I matter ?”

Which really means did I interact with people fully and effectively to make a difference in their lives — Did I help them ? What legacy am I leaving behind ? How will I be remembered ?

So what’s important to us is how we interact with others and I also extend this to pets and our environment.

Are you beginning to see the cosmic reality of your true nature — it is that of God.

Way too many people spend lifetimes searching for God and trying to understand God but, to understand God, is to know thyself. I don’t understand what they are looking for during their search, but God is EVERYWHERE and, like you, there is NO PLACE GOD ISN’T.

THUS … YOU ARE GOD.

I’ll end here for now, but comment and let me know your thoughts.